When you say that whay "
they" recommended - who is that? Your garage, HRE, the vendor you ordered the wheels from. If you're selling wheels to be fitted on a new Porsche, you ought to know about N rated tires.
Porsche spends a lot of time, money and effort working with tire companies to get the "right" tire for their cars. One that will meet the factories performance, confort and safety requirements. You're entire driving experience really comes down to this four tiny rubber contact patches.
The TireRack has a pretty article describing Porsche's N rating here.
http://www.tirerack.com/tires/tirete....jsp?techid=26
It's worth the read.
Are you going to spin off the road and die if you don't use an N rated tire? no. For me personally, I wouldn't mount anything but an N rated (street) tire on my Cayman.